Dildos come in different sizes and shapes and are an absolute thrill to use! There are three dildo sizes: tiny, huge, and medium. To add to that, there are a variety of dildos available in terms of design and substance, including silicone, glass, harness-compatible (psst…these are great for pegging!), vibrating, highly realistic, and twin dildos (double the fun!).
Getting the ideal dildo size that
a) gives you all kinds of fantastic sensations and
b) reaching up to all the delicious places inside you is crucial for sexual pleasure.
People’s bodies and their various openings are not all the same size and shape.
For example, one person may find a large dildo size thrilling and fun, while another may find it painful. A friend of yours might prefer a king cock while being a size queen, but you might prefer a medium-sized dildo. Understanding and accommodating variety can really spice up your life!
Lastly, keep in mind that dildo sex toys are appropriate for anyone! As long as you choose the right one that suits you, it can really make your sexy time all the sexier.
They are excellent for mimicking P-in-V (or P-in-Any orifice) intercourse and can be highly entertaining anal sex toys. Dildos provide many alternatives for mind-blowing sensations. When they are the perfect size and price for you or your companion, you will make the experience even more pleasurable.
Dildos And Dildo Sizes
The four most common dildo dimensions are length, insertable length, width, and girth. If you are wondering what the ‘average’ dildo size is, you aren’t really going to get an answer here because we are not particularly fond of the word “average.” In the end, everything comes down to personal taste. Here are some fundamentals to help you with choosing a dildo size.
Insertable Length Of The Dildo
This dimension indicates the anticipated depth of insertion or penetration of the dildo. A dildo may occasionally feature a handle, balls, or a flared end that creates a base. This safety measure ensures that you don’t have to play an unintentional game of hide-and-seek with your dildo that ends in the emergency room. (Yes, this has been known to happen, and yes, it’s incredibly awkward).
Width Of The Dildo
This gauges the width of the dildo from side to side. This measurement is often taken at the broadest point unless another measurement specifies the widest point. For anal dildos that taper in the front and broaden further down, this measurement is very important.
Girth Of The Dildo
The dildo’s girth is its circumference. Once more, the circumference at its broadest point is what is considered.
A Guide To Choosing The Right Dildo For You
One of the best ways to do this is to use a penetrative toy you already own to determine how big, little, thick or thin your new dildo should be. If you enjoy the feel of that sex object, take its measurements and compare them to those of the dildo you’re considering. A measuring tool, such as a soft tape measure, will be useful.
If this does not work for you, you can purchase and utilize a very simple, low-cost dildo or dilator made of a body-safe material.
Although it might not become your permanent dildo, it can aid in the measurement process and help you decide what dildo size to get.
When you are using a dildo, it is also important that you feel aroused, as this will make the entire process much more pleasurable. If you have a vagina, you probably already know this, but it’s still important to mention that while you’re sexually excited, the vagina can accommodate more. So before collecting measurements, turn on your sexiest music, imagine your best erotic scene, and work up a good sweat!
How To Select The Right Length
This step will entail taking measurements, and you can get your ever-helpful partner to give you a hand here. Although having a helper nearby can simplify the process, working alone is also perfectly okay.
When you’re prepared, slide your dildo, toy, or another smooth object into and out of yourself. Remove the item once you’ve gotten as far down the handle as you feel comfortable, keeping your fingers there, then measure all the way to your fingertips.
You can also mark the item and measure it to your mark if that simplifies things. And there you go, you’ve found the ideal length for your dildo size.
How To Select The Right Width
It’s a little more challenging to achieve the width alone. If you have your partner around to help you, ask them to gently insert each finger into your vagina one at a time until it feels full enough for you.
Then, ask them to pull their fingers out and wrap them in a soft tape measure to get the correct width measurement. You’re now looking for a dildo with a girth of that size. You can do this with your own fingers, but you might struggle to get the angle precisely right, and it might not be the most comfortable experience.
Dildo Sizes
When you have your measurements, buying dildos is much easier. Various dildo variations can mimic penetrative intercourse, and there are many of them, so you have plenty to choose from. Do you want dildos with suction cups that you can mount to the shower wall?
That way, you can get off if you get horny as the hot water rolls down your body, and you can bounce to the suction cup base.
You should use a dildo compatible with a harness if you intend to use a strap-on.
This kind of sex toy has a flared base that works well with the awesome harness or strap-on system you’ve been itching to test. And, of course, you can use a strap-on for all that toe-curling pegging!
One woman’s description of her favorite part of pegging will show you how much fun it can be: “For me, it’s the way my lover fucking moans and squirms while I use the strap-on on him. It’s incredibly hot.
He generally doesn’t make much noise when he fucks me, but when I peg him, he goes into pieces and makes all kinds of noises. When we’re pegging, we get to switch up the positions, and I get the power, and he submits quite deliciously.”
Choosing Sizes For Strapless Dildos
If you don’t know much about strapless dildos, don’t worry because you are not alone. Not a lot of people know how wonderful these sex toys can be. These beautiful gadgets, also known as strapless strap-ons, are designed exclusively for vagina owners because a strapless dildo requires extremely powerful vaginal muscles to stay in place. For some people, they work incredibly well, while strapless dildos are unpopular with others.
Dildos without straps need to be fitted separately. You must determine whether the dildo size and width of the bulb that your/their vagina will cling onto is still comfortable for the user.
Choosing The Right Sizes For Anal Dildos
Like all the others, the sizing for anal sex toys also varies.
The girth of the anal dildo will likely be what you feel during penetration, so determining how much girth you want at the widest point for anal play is quite important.
Some sex toys have really huge girths, but they are typically used for sex of Olympic calibre and aren’t something that most people would want to incorporate into their regular sex life.
The easiest approach to acquiring anal dildo sizing is to have someone else do it for you so you can concentrate totally on relaxing while they insert and measure. And always remember, the more relaxed your buttocks are, the more you will be able to withstand more powerful dildos.
You’ll need to find a comfortable posture to do this job, which may involve getting down on all fours with your butt raised, lying on your side, or lying on your back with a pillow under your buttocks.
Once you get here, have your partner lubricate your anus before carefully inserting their fingers. The relaxation process takes a minute to complete. Additionally, it will probably take longer if you are new to anal penetration. The trick is to calm down and relax your muscles as much as possible.
Start by moving one finger in and out, then gradually add more. Allow your body some time to adjust to the sensation by leaving the fingers in, with minimal movement, till your body adjusts. Have them try to enter as many fingers as are comfortable for you once you feel the most at ease.
Once the fingers have been removed slowly and gently, measure the width of the united fingers with your soft measuring tape. Don’t forget the lubricant either – lube is key! You can even use an anal training set if you don’t like using fingers. And always remember to clean your toys.
Once you have the measurements, you can pick suitable toys from a decent adult toy shop like Flirty Rabbit, Vancouver. Happy hunting!